Men on the edge gay
Welcome to gay men going deeper. This is a podcast where we converse about personal maturation, mental health, and sexuality. Your hosts today are Matt Landsiedel, Calan Breckon, and myself, Michael DiIorio and collectively we have over 40 years of experience in the personal development planet. And if this is your first time listening to us, we crave to welcome you to the show.
We each have our own coaching train. And in this podcast, we’re giving away all of our best stuff. This is our 19 ninth episode of the podcast, everyone. So three chairs almost at a hundred. Yeah. So for this episode, we’re going to be talking about our people. This will be a little bit of a more personal episode because we’re going to share our common vision for the community that we’re co-creating here together,
Matt, Calan and I, and our moderator team and how we’re doing that. So we’re going to be talking a little bit about why building this community is important to each of us or going to give how we’ve each changed from the beginning to today. And then we’re going to split one thing we’re really excited about co-creating in the future. So we&
My 50 years of Gay (But most of it was spent immersive in the closet)
Michael* ponders how his life might have been if he’d felt able to come out as gay earlier in life, and how collective group support can make a difference now . . .
OK, in retrospect I’ve probably been gay for more than 50 years, but it was around 1967, when I was at the tender age of 13, that I began to watch my friends in a modern light, and it dawned on me that some of them were rather good-looking.
Prior to this, I’d always preferred to be around other boys, girls just didn’t interest me.
I remember at primary school, when I was probably only about 5 or 6 years old, I used to prefer being with the other boys, and as I got a bit older it was boys that I spent my playtimes with, both in and out of school.
There were lots of girls in the neighbourhood, but it seemed that boys played with boys, and girls played with girls, and that suited me perfectly.
At the age of 7, I had been enrolled into the Cubs, so even more of my spare time was spent with other boys. In fact, I remained an active member of the Scouting movement until I left home for university some 11 years later.
Starting secondary scho
Everything you need to understand about edging in sex
Edging is unlikely to hold harmful side effects and will not cause any ejaculation problems.
Anorgasmia
People should also be mindful of how they approach this perform . While it may aid individuals achieve orgasm, it may not help those who experience anorgasmia, which means they have difficulty reaching orgasm.
However, it is essential to keep in mind that an orgasm does not define a sexual encounter.
Sexually transmitted infections (STIs)
As with any sexual action, there is a uncertainty of infection. Sexual activities can lead to STIs, such as chlamydia, syphilis, or gonorrhea.
It is achievable to reduce the peril of infection from edging by using barrier metxhods of contraception, such as a condom or dental dam, and receiving regular sexual health checkups.
There are several ways to perform edging. They all follow similar steps that include:
- experiencing stimulation to the point just before an orgasm
- stopping stimulation or switching intensity to avoid a climax
- waiting for a compact time
- increasing stimulation to the edge again
- repeating the steps until wanting to achieve orgasm
With a loved one, this mi
How can a instinct of belonging be forged in a setting where one’s existence is forbidden? That is the question that LSE’s Dr Centner and his co-author Harvard’s Manoel Pereira Neto explore in their groundbreaking research into Dubai’s expatriate queer men’s nightlife.
But it was not an easy topic to research. Dr Centner explains: “It's an illegal, or criminalised, identity and arrange of behaviours and practices, so in a very general sense, it's a taboo. And taboo subjects are very often under-researched, sometimes because people hold a hard second gaining access, gaining that trust, but also because, even if people acquire that access, there could be significant repercussions for themselves as researchers, or for the people who are the research participants.
“As two queer researchers, we were able to enter the worlds of relatively privileged Western gay expatriates. Secrecy is often the norm, but the field was familiar to us, through previous visits and research projects.”
These were indeed ‘parties’ ...[but] not bars identified as homosexual. Not a available venue’s webpage uses the word ‘gay’ or related euphemisms, nor do they hint at targeting