What to wear to a gay nightclub

Just got profession at gay exclude. Anything to expect?

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Just got second job, this one is as a bartender at a “gay/lesbian / metro, etc” bar. I am super thrilled and looking forward to starting this week if all goes well. I am not same-sex attracted, nor do I drink, nor acquire I ever been a bartender. Not that there’s anything wrong with that! I have worked in restaurants for over 8 years and I am 2 types of certified to be a bartender.
I have heard many people perpetuating a stereotype that queer people are fine tippers and saying “oh great, you’ll make lots of tips!” Has anyone else encountered this stereotype? Does anyone know if it has a kernel of truth?
Would you take such a job if you weren’t same-sex attracted and didn’t drink? would you take care of what people thought? I’m a instructor and I listed my boss as a reference and made sure it would be okay. she said it’s not a problem.
Any pieces of advice or words of wisdom about being a bartender in general or anything specific to this type of work?

Lukeinva2

Of course you’ll get lots of tips!

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Well, people feel to be implying that I will be getting more tips than I would if I worked at a straight bar

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Dress to Impress at the Clubs
October 18, 2007 7:43 PM   Subscribe

Going out clubbing for the first time in years and i'm at a loss for what to wear. I'm going to be going out to the lgbtq+ bars / clubs this weekend and have not been out for nearly two years so I'm a but out of touch.


Recently a partner of mine came out (as queer ) duh, and I'm gonna get him out club hopping, I desire to look kind cuz I've been crushing on that guy sense before he came out... I have a feeling that he feels the equal so I just want to construct sure that I look my finest. Just to reinforce it :)

I'm 27, decent body, can wear fitted clothing and glance good, but can't get away with skintight (no six pack, but no gut either)
My budget is about $150.. I already have the shoes but need a shirt and some nice jeans... I already have some decent t shirts, so would I be better served by splurging on a hot pair of jeans?

I want to glare somewhat classy, so no completely trashy clothes :)

I was thinking state or banana republic, but there is a Nordstrom's here too but I'm not really experienced with that place.

Please mefites, facilitate me keep his eyes on me.

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A girl’s modern guide to gay bar etiquette

By Galore Guest

There comes a time in every girl’s life when the glamour of going out begins to wear a minute thin. You come to realize that clubs are not only sweaty and overpriced but that, no matter where you travel, some random guy will follow you around all night.  It’s a challenging life when all you want to do is dress up and sway all night but some clingy boy monopolizes your attention.

If only there was another way… Oh hold on , there is! The queer bar. Still sweaty, still overpriced, but you’re gonna get a heck of a lot less male attention. (And bonus points if you like your music with a side of noughties nostalgia)

For people who don’t often locate themselves in queer spaces, heading to a male lover bar might make them feel a bit out of their comfort zone. It’s worth getting a few tips in advance so you can create the most of the experience and enjoy dancing uninhibited by any feelings of self-consciousness.

As a gay gal myself, I’ve been to my fair contribute of LGBTQI+ venues and have a bunch of advice I’m only too eager to share.

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First Time at a Gay Bar_ What To Wear And How To Have Fun

Imagine yourself on a Friday evening, ready to ease into the weekend by going out for lighthearted socializing and libation. What better way to spend your free period as a gay man than to explore gay bar within (or even outside) your area?

These bars are not simply avenues for senseless fun and sexual liberation. They are also protected spaces for genuine gender statement and celebration of queer culture.

Are you looking forward to going to a gay bar and having an epic night?  Decipher this article to get a heads-up on what to expect in queer bars and how you can prepare, especially if this is your first time.

What Is a Gay Bar?

Gay bars, also known as queer bars, are clubs that cater to the queer community, including lesbians, gays, bisexuals, and transgender people.  Thus, gay bars were recognizable to be the social hub for people of all gender identities and orientations.

As second progressed, queer bars were subdivided into the specific gender identities and orientations they primarily cater to, as in the case of gay and lesbian bars.

A Brief History of Gay Bars

Many gay bars were initially operated illegally b