How to sex gay
Ever wanted to grasp the secrets to becoming a dominance bottom? Want to know how to look after the bottoms in your life? Curious to give bottoming a try but not sure how to begin?
We can assist you become a better bottom! Here are some immediate bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.
1. Lube
The arse does not produce its own lubrication.
This means that lube is really, really crucial for any anal play. First, to stop damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to produce bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to assist protect it from infections.
Remember to utilize water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can spoil condoms.
2. You
The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and passionate aspects such as making sure you feel safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.
Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people deeply interested are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good companion and you can’t experience pleasure for yourself if you’re stressed or uncomfortable (bottom or not!).
3. R How do same-sex couples have sex? How can they practice safer sex?
People who identify as queer woman , gay, bi or heterosexual can give and express pleasure in many ways. There isn’t just one way for two people to have sex, no matter what sex or sexual orientation they are.
What two people of the same sex do to have sex together depends on what feels good for them. Often, people think that sex is only putting a penis into a vagina, but that may not be the exercise that brings the most pleasure to the two people. This is true for heterosexual, multi-attracted , lesbian and gay people.
Males who identify as gay, bisexual or just do sexual things with other males may use their fingers (manual stimulation), mouths (oral sex) and various body parts to give and receive pleasure. They may kiss, touch each other’s bodies or touch the penis and other areas including the scrotum or the anus. Sometimes they use penises to penetrate the anal opening (anal sex).
Females who identify as queer woman , bisexual or just do sexual things with other females may touch each other’s genitals by using their fingers (manual stimulation), mouths (oral sex) and various body parts. They may brush , touch each other’s
The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.
I’m scared of bottoming
Most gay men will examine bottoming at some day. However, the thought of doing it for the first time can be scary. Don’t let that put you off.
You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse compete like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can obtain douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Try not to go overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can make you more vulnerable to STIs.
Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some men do operate amyl nitrate (poppers) to relax the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:
- have been linked with an increased exposure of HIV transmission
- don’t mix with erection drugs enjoy Viagra and may produce a heart attack.
Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to relax and relaxes the arse too.
Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, w
LGBTQIA+ Safer Sex Guide
Zero.
Disgracefully, that’s the number of U.S. states that demand sex education curriculums be comprehensively inclusive to LGBTQIA+ folks.
Most sex learning process programs, instead, believe that those receiving the information are both heterosexual and cisgender. If there’s anything less charming than clogs, it’s that degree of homophobia and transphobia.
That’s why we worked with GLSEN, Advocates for Youth, and two gender non-conforming sex educators to create a safer sex guide that understands the accurate complexity and diversity across gender identities, sexual orientation, attractions, and experiences.
Only 5 (ish) percent of LGBTQIA+ students saw any LGBTQIA+ representation in health class.
This manual is for the 95 percent of students whose many sexual health questions went unanswered in school.
It’s also for any LGBTQIA+ person who’s ever wondered:
- “What conversations should I have with a partner before sex?”
- “Is there a risk of pregnancy or STI transmission during [insert sex act here]?”
- “What can I do to build sex even better?”
- “How do I become comfortable with my own body?”
Or anything else related to sexual health, sexual plea
How do same-sex couples have sex? How can they practice safer sex?
People who identify as queer woman , gay, bi or heterosexual can give and express pleasure in many ways. There isn’t just one way for two people to have sex, no matter what sex or sexual orientation they are.
What two people of the same sex do to have sex together depends on what feels good for them. Often, people think that sex is only putting a penis into a vagina, but that may not be the exercise that brings the most pleasure to the two people. This is true for heterosexual, multi-attracted , lesbian and gay people.
Males who identify as gay, bisexual or just do sexual things with other males may use their fingers (manual stimulation), mouths (oral sex) and various body parts to give and receive pleasure. They may kiss, touch each other’s bodies or touch the penis and other areas including the scrotum or the anus. Sometimes they use penises to penetrate the anal opening (anal sex).
Females who identify as queer woman , bisexual or just do sexual things with other females may touch each other’s genitals by using their fingers (manual stimulation), mouths (oral sex) and various body parts. They may brush , touch each other’s
The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.
I’m scared of bottoming
Most gay men will examine bottoming at some day. However, the thought of doing it for the first time can be scary. Don’t let that put you off.
You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse compete like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can obtain douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Try not to go overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can make you more vulnerable to STIs.
Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some men do operate amyl nitrate (poppers) to relax the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:
- have been linked with an increased exposure of HIV transmission
- don’t mix with erection drugs enjoy Viagra and may produce a heart attack.
Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to relax and relaxes the arse too.
Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, w
LGBTQIA+ Safer Sex Guide
Zero.
Disgracefully, that’s the number of U.S. states that demand sex education curriculums be comprehensively inclusive to LGBTQIA+ folks.
Most sex learning process programs, instead, believe that those receiving the information are both heterosexual and cisgender. If there’s anything less charming than clogs, it’s that degree of homophobia and transphobia.
That’s why we worked with GLSEN, Advocates for Youth, and two gender non-conforming sex educators to create a safer sex guide that understands the accurate complexity and diversity across gender identities, sexual orientation, attractions, and experiences.
Only 5 (ish) percent of LGBTQIA+ students saw any LGBTQIA+ representation in health class.
This manual is for the 95 percent of students whose many sexual health questions went unanswered in school.
It’s also for any LGBTQIA+ person who’s ever wondered:
- “What conversations should I have with a partner before sex?”
- “Is there a risk of pregnancy or STI transmission during [insert sex act here]?”
- “What can I do to build sex even better?”
- “How do I become comfortable with my own body?”
Or anything else related to sexual health, sexual plea