Gay ass hole
Looking after your assets: everything you need to comprehend about maintaining a happy, healthy ass
By Emen8, updated 11 months ago in Sex and matchmaking app / Sex
Anal sex. It’s probably not a deeply explored topic in the standard birds-and-bees chat.
But just like the rest of your sexy bits, your anus offers a whole wonderful nature to explore, and the mechanics are just the first stage. Bottoming can be one of the most intense, intimate, vulnerable and mind-blowing things you can do with another guy. Or it can be average, uncomfortable, embarrassing and very unsatisfying.
The difference can be as simple as arming yourself with the right information — and, as always, we’ve got your back(side). Read on for the boiling take on maintaining a happy, well ass, and how to use it for the top sex of your life.
1. Get to know the basic anatomy
As you can see from the handy diagram, this area involves several special muscles and sphincters. It sits right behind your prostate and the rest of your sex anatomy, which is why it feels so fine when your buddy is inside you. It’s also lined internally with mucosa (a moist, protective membrane) and is very rich in blood vessels
For anyone who does not understand, the label “Bottom,” refers to a man who participates in passive anal sex. A “Top” is the active participant. There are many men who seize to bottoming like a duck to water, never have and issue or injury and would not understand what all the fuss is about. On the other hand, there are many men who are drawn to experience of bottoming who cannot achieve their goals quiet so easily.
There are two main issues connected to bottoming. Firstly, how do I prepare for anal sex? Secondly, how do I keep clean down there so I won’t soil myself and my partner. Both are very valid concerns and discussed a lot in the community.
The general rule of thumb when preparing to bottom is to originate small and work up in a consistent and graded way. Any unnecessary muscle tension in and around your pelvis is unhelpful. Make sure you are relaxed and almost in a meditative relaxed state before starting to physically dilate your anal canal. Keep your breathing thick and slow and relax your abdominals.
Two very effective methods of anal dilation are the Self Massage Method and the Dilator Plug Method.
The Self Massage Method was the subject of a recent study a
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March 26, 2007 10:27 AM Subscribe
I'm a 25 year old male and have faith me, I'm gay. No need to post responses like, "Are you sure you're gay?" I treasure men and men's bodies. I just can't sound to get over entity totally grossed out by buttholes. I should reveal you that I am a virgin, so I've never actually touched, licked, or sniffed one. But I've seen some porn and can't stand to watch the parts where they "rim." I can watch the actual sex, but I don't appreciate looking at the hole. I just concentrate on other parts of the anatomy instead. If I were straight, this wouldn't even be an issue. But since I'm queer , I realize that most sex acts that same-sex attracted men like to involve in require use of the brown hole.
The hairiness is kinda gross, but I assess the slight brown skin color is nasty. I also have a difficulty with the fact that shit comes out of the butthole and it can't be entirely sanitary. Maybe you can wash it with
in anal sex, this is the deeper part of the rectum where the colon begins. There is a muscle there that prefer the rectum has to 'open up' and for men who are endowed enough to contact it, feels love hitting 'the second hole' inside the first one.
A word often used by gay men
Let me open up that second hole with this nine.
That nigga with the enormous dick got all up in the second hole!
by BlkChicago79 April 21, 2006
Invented by Thomas Jefferson in 1796, the Second Butt Hole is an additional anus created in order to alternate pooping. While maximizing efficiency, the Second Butt Hole also provides relief to the primary butt hole, so that you don't receive sore from all that pooping.
The Second Butt Hole is most famous from its appearance in the film Epic. Ben Stiller has also reported existence an avid fan of the Second Butt Hole.
"Man I was so wasted last night, I was shitting all morning. Thank God I have the Second Butt Hole"
by Minerva McGonagall May 10, 2009
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