Gay kink

By Emen8, updated 8 months ago in Sex and dating / Sex

Kink can be exhilarating, yet intimidating for the curious newbie. Pop culture often paints it in terms of chain slings and gimp suits, which is a legitimate but quite niche part of the culture.

Technically, kink is any sexual play outside ‘vanilla’ sex (for the purposes of this article, we’re putting popular guy-on-guy moves like oral, rimming and anal into the ‘vanilla’ category). If there’s a part of you that’s turned on by more adventurous sexual act, or you’ve got a fantasy that you’ve never had the confidence to share with a partner, kink might just be for you.

So, what is kink and how do you acquire some? It’s a very mixed bag with a lot of overlap, but in general terms, ‘kink’ refers to BDSM, which splits three ways:

B&D: bondage and discipline

• For example, restraints, handcuffs, blindfolds, ball gags, chastity and similar

D&S: power and submission

• For example, role-play, pup perform, humiliation, dom/sub scenes of all kinds

S&M: sadism and masochism (inflicting or experiencing pain)

• For example, impact play (like spanking/whipping), sounding, clampi
  

  As it's International Preference Day on 20 January, what enhanced time to accept a look at some of the most popular homosexual kinks and fetishes on the scene. Kink-meister Alex Hopkins lists his Top 10 – from piercings to pup play, there's something for all. What's your highest kink? 

  We gays have a prolonged and noble history as brave pioneers when it comes to fetishes. But at a age when the words ‘kink’ and ‘fetish’ are bandied about, what do these terms actually mean?

  
  “It’s about exploring something that doesn’t fit into typical ideas of sex,” says Andy, 60, from Brighton. “There’s usually a forbidden element to gay kinks. And they’re as much to do with what’s going on in your leader as with what you do with your dangly bits. Often more so. Fetishes are sensual as well as sexual.”

  
  Harnesses are big on the kinky gay scene shutterstock/AJR_photo

  
  “Gay fetishes are the antithesis of vanilla sex,” adds Joe, 44, from London. “They’re about being sexually attracted to something unconventional: an object, type of clothing, or an act. But it’s never just an act. It’s frequently a lifestyle, a way of being.”

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  Does your sex life need some extra spice? Maybe you know you perform — you’re just not sure where to start. Kinks might feel a little intimidating. But you don’t have to stress — you’re in good hands.

  Gay kinks are simply sexual plays (always with consent) that drop outside of anything “vanilla” or ordinary. There’s light spanking, roleplay, or extreme BDSM. Range in gay kinks is unbelievable. But there’s always something for everyone.

  I know gay kinks got you curious. Since you’re already here, let me give you a list of the top lgbtq+ kinks rookies like you should try!

  What Are Gay Kinks?

  Since “kinks” is broadly defined as anything outside of the mainstream sex space, gay kinks are simply kinks mostly practiced by or appeals to gay men.

  Gay kinks are not fetishes either. Fetishes require an object or behave to achieve arousal. With kinks, no object or act is considered a requirement. They’re more about adding flavor to your sex life.

  Many gay guys or bis get curious about kinks for many reasons.

  ● To include excitement to their relationships

  ● To experience taking or giving up control (power exchange)

  ● To
  
  

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